Us, Girls, Have Gone A Long Way

We, women, have fought long and hard for the equality we so wanted. And it cannot be denied that we have gone a long way from where we were decades ago. Nowadays, we can pursue a career without being labeled a neglectful mother, or a deviant. We are taken for what we are worth, and are offered job posts, which were only exclusive for men in the past.

stay at home momThis is certainly a big change, and something that is very helpful for the family. Given the fact that most families now need more than one source of income, it is very timely that women can be employed just as well as our male counterparts. The best part is that we have unlimited choices.

We can opt to work, and we can stay at home and be a full-time mother, too. Of course, being a full-time mom is the best job in the world, and it is also the most fulfilling. It will not be as financially attractive, as, say, a career in marketing or in accounting, but it has its rewards more priceless and valuable.

A stay-at-home mom does as much in contributing to the family’s growth, because she gives the much needed support to her working husband, and she monitors her child’s growth more. Some maintain a balance between working and staying at home by getting part time jobs. This helps augment the family’s income, while still enabling them to be at home when they are needed.

For us, with our unlimited choices, prioritization is the key. Thankfully, we are empowered to prioritize for ourselves.


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Job Search : Spend Your Time Researching – It is Time Well Invested

Looking at the competition in the present job marketplace, it has become obvious that new tactics and advantages geared towards an outstanding result are required. If you are devoid of new strategies, the disillusionment and frustration that accompany denial or rejection would mask your reasoning ability. Employing creative tactics is a great way to improve your chances of being listed at the top of available opportunities. You stay in total control when you take positive action.

Apprenticeships or internships are a few of the new strategies you can explore. This is a turn to something quite different from your major field – taking up jobs that do not pay as high as what you had in mind, just to make sure you have income coming in. You may also adopt the approach of rendering services for free.

The initial step is to spot the business where you desire to venture into, then take a bold step to provide services at no cost for the initial few months; this way, the recipient of your services would get to have a taste of the stuff you are made of.

Bear in mind that business struggle the same way as individuals to survive. Thus, if it costs such business nothing to explore your skills, you will be at a better position to win their favor.

The trend of things has changed, now. It’s not always the usual resume that lists your abilities, skills and qualifications. A new technique may require you to practically show the potential employer the stuff you are made of. Remember, the competition is fierce, there are people who are even more qualified than you are – thus a new technique can make you more qualified than your contemporaries.

Spend Your Time Researching – It is Time Well Invested.

Research both online and offline, the companies that may need your skills. Then, pinpoint one that cannot do without your expertise. If you have gone through a lot of internships while in college, you can volunteer to use those in an organization (without demanding for anything) where they are applicable and see how fast this singular act would open big opportunities for you.



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Mixing Business With Friendship

I do essentially everything with my best friend – we shop together, dine together, watch movies together, nursed my heartaches together, and celebrated my achievements together. We were even together when my husband proposed! And she is of course the godmother of my first born. Naturally, we also have common dreams – of making it big, of putting up a business which will make us financially independent.

business with friendsBut, when it comes to the last item, I am having doubts on whether we should do this together. I have no doubt she will be as committed as I am to the business, and I know she is the most responsible person I can partner with, and of course I trust her completely, but I know that we could be putting our friendship at risk if we mix business with friendship.

Both of us like to take control of things, and this can present some clash. Over the years, we’ve discovered that we have some common traits and we enjoy and maximize these traits when we are together. For example, we love shopping the whole day only to get that perfect pair of shoes.

Can you imagine how this will work out when we need to run some errands for the business? Not too well, I think. And, we never have to talk about money. When we are in a business, we’ll inevitably talk about money. I have always given her advice on how to save, and she has given me some on how to spend less. These positives will surely present some negatives when we go into business together.

So for now, I would rather have her as my best friend than as a business partner.


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