Yes, that was my advice to a friend who just hated herself for not being pretty, smart and thin enough compare to other people around her. I know pessimism is the culprit and being surrounded by negative people doesn’t help as well.
I remember a phrase that once quoted by Sophia Loren that goes ” Beauty is how you feel inside. It reflects in your eyes. It is not something purely physical. Perhaps, this sounds like a stereotype expression, but it holds true to its meaning. I often remind myself all the time that, in fact, I put on post it notes all over the house.

Some people might be fed up of becoming inferior to the world. That may be GOOD, but looking for the favorable things that you’ve experienced could help. Tend not to invest some time stressing regarding how you compare with other individuals on this planet, give attention to allowing you to feel better about oneself. Everybody is a wonderful person.
There isn’t any one else on this earth very much like you — that all alone is actually astounding. We are unique individuals from the eyes of our Creator, and we’ve got gifts to offer the entire world! So free yourself of the emotions involving inadequacy and allow oneself permission to believe it.
Over coffee, I just had to ask her, and I soon deduced that the key to accomplishing a lot of things is to manage my time wisely. We each plotted our daily activities and I find out that I spend a lot of time doing nothing, or at least, nothing productive.
In these times when the economy is not at its tiptop shape, we all need to be very careful about leaving a current job, as it may not be so easy to get a new one. We’ve all heard about the many layoffs around us, and we’ve seen it happen to many people we know. Some are of sterling qualifications. Some are of executive level, and still, they were not immune to layoffs. Because of this, having a job is really a blessing which we all need to take care of. 